I like doing activities with close friends to chat, laugh and enjoy the moment. But large groups and crowded events are not my cup of tea. My humour can be ironic and I like to see the absurdity in situations that are supposed to be serious. I read (novels, essays, history), write and do genealogy. A 'spin-off' interest is population genetics. I'm gay, it's part of my identity, but I don't like the idea of being reduced to a community.